Three peaks.
One trail.
Joy at the center.
A simple map I carry from the Colorado Trail into everyday life. Three peaks, Presence, Acceptance, and Purpose, that help clear the path to the joy already waiting inside you.
My mind was trained for the what-ifs.
For most of my career in risk and compliance, my job was to think about what could go wrong. I got really good at the what-ifs. Maybe a little too good.
Then in 2020, a health scare hit, and those what-ifs took over. I barely slept. My mind was everywhere except right here.
The trail is where it started to shift. Mile after mile, I noticed that most of the what-ifs never actually happened. They just added weight to my pack. So I started coming back to this step, this breath, this moment.
This framework is how I keep coming back. It's the trail map I wish I'd had a lot sooner.
Three peaks, with Joy at the center.
Picture a mountain with three peaks. Each peak is a pillar you can practice. When they work together, they clear the trail to what's sitting right in the middle: Joy. You don't have to chase it. You just have to uncover it.
Joy isn't something you chase or buy. It's already in you, waiting to surface.
Peak 01
Presence
Come back to this step, this breath, this moment. Presence is noticing when my mind wanders off to old regrets or future worries, and gently walking it back home.
- IntentionMake time for stillness, prayer, meditation, or simply sitting in silence.
- PerspectiveSame trail, different lens. Change the lens and the whole view changes.
- CommunityWe were never meant to hike alone. Show up, listen, and appreciate your trail family.
Peak 02
Acceptance
Stop arguing with the trail you're on. Acceptance means meeting what is, adapting when plans fall apart, and setting down the weight I was never meant to carry.
- Let GoLoosen your grip on the things outside your control.
- Be VulnerableOpening up with people you trust is a strength, not a weakness.
- Face DiscomfortKeep your pace through the hard parts, and rest when you need to.
Peak 03
Purpose
Know what fills your cup, make time for what gives you purpose, and keep hiking toward it through every up and down.
- Measure GrowthLook back at the trail behind you, not at the summits you haven't reached yet.
- True SelfKnow what fills you up and what drains you, and take care of yourself so you can be your best self, for you and for everyone around you.
- Keep HikingLife has ups and downs. Learn from the low points and keep moving toward what matters.
“The climb gives you joy.
From The Trail to Here
The summit gives you perspective.”
Born on the Colorado Trail.
Shared in The Trail to Here.
Over eleven years, I section-hiked the Colorado Trail with a group of friends who became my trail family. Somewhere between the storms, the detours, and the campfire talks, these lessons took shape.
The Trail to Here: An Unexpected Path to Presence is part memoir, part trail guide for the soul. The book's appendix gives you a sneak peek at the Mountains to Mindfulness Framework™. A fuller, deeper version is already in the works for my next book.
The Trail to Here arrives in early 2027.
“The trail doesn’t end at the last mile marker. You can carry its lessons the rest of your life.”
From The Trail to Here
Let's hike this one together.
From the trail to practice groups, I love sharing this framework with people. Whether it's a men's group, a workplace team, a Scout troop, a retreat, or a podcast conversation, I'd love to talk about bringing the Mountains to Mindfulness Framework™ to your crew through a workshop or talk.
Start a ConversationJust keep hiking.
Tyler (“Radar”)